Several weeks ago, I admitted to you that I was a reforming avoider.
This mainly swirled around the concept of money, but reared it’s ugly head into my relationships, my work, my calendar, + the piles on my desk.
So, here were some of the key areas of major scarcity in my life:
- time management
- systems
- follow through
- guilt-free fun
- sound sleep
Yikes, right?
I’d take on a boatload of obligations, scribble my to-dos down on a post-it, cover the post-it with recipes I wouldn’t get to, promise someone I’d do something, and then go to Target for a cartful of unnecessary goodies – and forget all about everything else.
Until bedtime when I couldn’t sleep.
Don’t get me wrong – my heart was in the right place. But my mind wasn’t.
Until I started practicing what I preached, I could barely hold my head above water.
Since then, I have made some major shifts in my life – and the fun is just beginning.
I opted-in to an awesome coaching program that holds me accountable to my goals, made my way through a certification course to increase my income, created a program to help bad-ass women entrepreneurs reclaim some of their hard-earned time + freedom, threw a slamming 40th for my sweetheart, started initiating sales conversations, and had a rocking beach day with my twins.
My Juicy Glad-I-Caught-That: Anything worth doing, is worth doing right. ~ Hunter S. Thompson
My calendar looks very different now. It is thought-out + manageable. It includes revenue-generating activities + lots and lots of fun!
My systems are safe + sound in docs on my DropBox.
And when my girlfriend asked if I wanted to wrangle up the kids mid-Monday morning + steal them away to Seaside Park for a beach day, I barely hesitated. And by 7pm, when we were cuddled up with our kiddos while we watched the paddleboarders just before sunset, I knew that I had work under control at home.
Because I had left it that way. And then I slept like a baby.
It didn’t happen overnight – just ask my partner – but it is happening. And now that it’s in motion…well, you know what they say.
First time I’ve seen your webpage and ….I Love it!!! I was so intrigued by your blogs and quite honestly felt a sense of relief that 1) I’m not alone in feeling at times overwhelmed, in-decisive, eager to please, and slow to commit and that 2) There’s hope for me yet 🙂 You truly amaze me and have some very insightful and clever tricks up your sleeve (not surprised in the least). Keep up the great work…you rock girl! Best of Love & Luck.
Jen